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Monday, January 18, 2016

Monday Musts #2




This is a weekly meme created by Jessica of Lovin' Los Libros.  Go to her site and get on the linky link and see other participants' Monday Musts!


It's Monday and we have the day off to reflect on the impact of Martin Luther King Jr. on our country.  I was just a small child in the 60's, so I have no actual memory of him.  I think it is hard for people now to think of someone in this day and age being able to inspire and organize others to peacefully change our country for the better.  Perhaps, one day, we will see new leaders emerge that will help mold the world into a more equal and fair society.

Last week was finals for one of my kids, and now my other high school student has finals this week.  The stress level these teens face is enormous!  I have a hard time watching my kids struggle.  I see how hard they work and how frustrating it is to have too much to do. 

Here are my musts for this Monday:


Must Read:

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/24647866-the-possibility-of-now?from_search=true&search_version=serviceThis is an amazing book by Kim Culbertson, about student stress.  I have reviewed it on my blog, and am part of a street team for it.  But it really touched me.  I read it at a time of seeing how much pressure my kids have been under to be super students.  It is about a teen who cracks under the pressure to be perfect.  It is a smart, fun read.  There is a giveaway going on here.


Must Listen:



        

This song, Stressed Out by 21 Pilots, could be my kid's theme song! It perfectly embodies Finals week.

Must See: 

Race To Nowhere

             

This is a documentary about student stress that won a bunch of awards.  I think it is thought-provoking and I hope more people see it.

What are your Musts for Monday

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Sunday, January 17, 2016

Bring back Dead Week!



First of all, I need to tell you: I am not a student.  But I am the parent of two high school kids.  Maybe it's because one of my kids is struggling and one of them is very conscientious, but it seems the stress teens have with finals is at an all time high!

When I was a student (a million years ago, to be sure), the week before finals was considered "Dead Week".  Teachers were not allowed to give homework or teach anything new.  It was supposed to be a week of study and review.  Fast forward to now and it is a whirlwind of group projects, last minute tests, and teachers trying to make up for lost time.

This past week, my Freshman student had three group projects and two major tests.  This kid did NOT wait until the last minute to do their assignments, these were projects that were just assigned.  Trying to work with three sets of groups and studying for two tests meant my kid got, at most, 4 hours of sleep per night.  This is too much for a teen.

Talking to other parents today, we are all saying the same thing:  Enough!!!  Schools say they want to reduce student stress.   But when push comes to shove, letting teachers load students up with major assignments at the end of the semester shows that they just don't get it.

Bring back "Dead Week"!!!  If high schools really want to help reduce student stress, they will not just "talk the talk", but will "walk the walk".  It's time for parents to demand an end to this madness.


https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/24647866-the-possibility-of-now?ac=1&from_search=1
 There is a fantastic book by author Kim Culbertson called The Possibility of Now about a student who has a meltdown during Finals.  It is entertaining and thought-provoking.  My review of  this book is here.  I think it resonated with me so much because of seeing what my sweet kid is going through at their high-performing high school.  Is is worth it?

Why are we so obsessed with getting perfect grades?  When did the teen years become this demanding?  I know that some of the traditional rites of passage for teens are gone.  There simply isn't time for students to have part-time jobs, or even to learn to drive.  

The typical homework load of high school students is over 3 hours per night.  Researchers at Duke University say that the maximum amount of homework per night should be topped off at 2 hours.  Excessive homework leads to not only stress, but also physical problems.  You can read a great article from the New York Times about the negative effects of heavy homework loads here.  

What do you think?  Are you a stressed out student?  I would love to hear what students and parents are thinking about this.





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Saturday, January 9, 2016

Stacking The Shelves #13






Stacking The Shelves is a weekly feature hosted by Tynga's Reviews.  Go check out their blog and see all the other blogs that are participating.


New This week:  I have included links to each book on GoodReads.  Just click on an image and Bam! You are on the information page!


Read This Week:

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25898435-beyond-the-red?from_search=true&search_version=service
Favorite Read of the Week!
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25159262-liars-and-losers-like-us?from_search=true&search_version=service            https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/22918050-the-heir?from_search=true&search_version=service 


 Bought:


https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/21414439-truthwitch?from_search=true&search_version=service


Acquired from NetGalley:



https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/26240627-the-imitation-gamehttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/27787105-mystical?from_search=true&search_version=servicehttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25734207-the-last-days-of-magic?from_search=true&search_version=service


What was your favorite read this week?  What books did you get that you can't wait to read?  Let me know in the comments. 


https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/24647866-the-possibility-of-now?from_search=true&search_version=serviceThere is still a giveaway from the author for The Possibility of Now!  It is a wonderful book about a stressed out student who starts to question her priorities.  Read my review of it here.




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Sunday, January 3, 2016

ARC Review & Giveaway! The Possibility of Now





Please note:  I was given an e-copy of this book by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.  This did not influence my opinions of my review.  I am also part of Nori's (of ReadWriteLove)  Sunday Street Team for this book.  Reviewers only participate in Street Teams if they enjoy the book.


Synopsis: 

Mara James has always been a perfectionist with a plan. But despite years of overachieving at her elite school, Mara didn't plan on having a total meltdown during her calculus exam. Like a rip-up-the-test-and-get-escorted-out kind of meltdown. And she definitely didn't plan on never wanting to show her face again.



Mara knows she should go back, only she can't bring herself to do it. Because suddenly she doesn't know why she's been overachieving all these years. So Mara tells her mom she wants to go live with her estranged dad in Tahoe. Maybe in a place like Tahoe, where people go to get away from everyday life, and with a dad like Trick McHale, a ski bum avoiding real life, Mara can figure things out.


Except Tahoe is nothing like she thought it would be. There are awesome new friends and a chance to finally get to know Trick, but there are also still massive amounts of schoolwork. Can Mara find a balance between the future and the now, or will she miss out on both?

Review:

When I read The Possibility of Now, by Kim Culbertson, the story of Mara, a student who has a meltdown in class over her grades, hit a chord for me.  Student Stress is a topic that is near and dear to my heart.  With four kids all high school aged and up, I have seen, firsthand, how competitive high school can be.  Like Mara, my kids went to a highly competitive high school where they seem to churn out super-kids.  Everyone is either an accomplished athlete, an artist, or a science genius.  And their grades are perfect.  And they volunteer at orphanages in Mexico during Spring Break.  Everyone is straining to have the perfect student experience that will look impressive on their college applications.  This is what Mara is struggling with.  Finally, she has a very public breakdown during her Calculus Final, and someone posts it on YouTube.  Mortified, she flees to Tahoe to live for two months with her estranged dad.

So much of this story rang true for me.  I see students, every day, who are trying to be perfect.  In The Possibility of Now, Mara's mom is the one pushing her to aim high so she can go to a great college (something she never got a chance to do).  In real life, parents push, but there is tons of peer pressure as well.  Mara's best friend, Josie, shows that as she constantly is comparing how heavy her workload is to Mara's.  It seems to be a competition where the student with the least sleep, hardest test, and most pressure wins.  Finally, Mara begins to question what her priorities are and think about what she wants in life, rather than doing what will please others.  

I LOVED this book!  I thought the relationships were very complex and led me to want to learn more about each person, especially about Trick McHale (Mara's dad).  Why wasn't he part of Mara's life until now?  Why does he let Mara's mom dictate everything?  How can Mara get to know her dad when he is clearly hiding something?  The book shows that even in a vacation paradise like Lake Tahoe, people still have to work, solve problems, deal with parents, etc.  I thought the ending was very realistic.  I don't want to give anything away, but I liked that everything wasn't wrapped up neatly with a bow on top. 

This book will resonate with teens who are dealing with the high expectations placed on them.  There are no perfect people.  Everyone will have trials and obstacles in their journey.  It's how we deal with setbacks that show our strengths.  I think Mara learns this as she begins to live in The Now.  This book is fun, thoughtful, and encouraging.  I hope that many people will read it and enjoy it as much as I did.
Rating:                           



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Release Date:  January 26, 2016

Source:  Obtained from the publisher.

Format:  E-Book

Recommendation:  An entertaining book that will ring true for stressed out teens.

Would I read more from this author?  Yes!



About the Author:
Kim Culbertson is the author of Catch a Falling Star; Instructions for a Broken Heart, a Northern California Book Award winner; and Songs for a Teenage Nomad. When she’s not writing young adult novels, she teaches high school creative writing. Kim lives with her husband and their daughter in Northern California. For more about Kim, visit www.kimculbertson.com.


The Author has been kind enough to do a giveaway!  




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