Synopsis (From GoodReads):
In The Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo,
Amy mines her past for stories about her teenage years, her family,
relationships, and sex and shares the experiences that have shaped who
she is - a woman with the courage to bare her soul to stand up for what
she believes in, all while making us laugh.
Ranging from the
raucous to the romantic, the heartfelt to the harrowing, this highly
entertaining and universally appealing collection is the literary
equivalent of a night out with your best friends - an unforgettable and
fun adventure that you wish could last forever. Whether she's
experiencing lust-at-first-sight while in the airport security line,
sharing her own views on love and marriage, admitting to being an
introvert, or discovering her cross-fit instructor's secret bad habit,
Amy Schumer proves to be a bighearted, brave, and thoughtful storyteller
that will leave you nodding your head in recognition, laughing out
loud, and sobbing uncontrollably - but only because it's over.
Review:
Some people love reality television. They enjoy peering into the lives of celebrities like the Kardashians, and seeing what goes on behind the scenes. I don't watch those shows (actually, I don't watch much TV at all because I'm too busy reading), but I do the book reader's equivalent by devouring celebrity memoirs! Yes, they are my guilty pleasure. I particularly love listening to these kind of books as audio books, because the celeb usually reads their own book.
Now, I must say that I did not know much about Amy Schumer before I read this book. I know she has (had?) a show on Comedy Central called Inside Amy Schumer, and that she was in a hit movie called Trainwreck. If it seems like I have been hiding under a rock for not knowing about this actress, it's probably a generation thing. I am just not in the regular demographic that Amy Schumer aims for. And yet, her book, The Girl With The Lower Back Tattoo, was such a fun, honest account of how she sees life that I was charmed.
What I Liked:
Creative Process:
Although it seems as if she was an overnight success, Amy Schumer worked her tail off to get to where she is. Amy goes into great detail about how hard it is to do stand-up comedy. I appreciated how she explained the long hours and work needed to break through to stardom.
Honesty:
This person is brutally honest about her life, particularly about sex. Whey did this charm me? I think it is because I come from a generation that just doesn't talk that freely about sex. But it's more than that. I think that I admire how Amy feels free to be a sexual person without the shame that women can feel. While I would never speak so freely about these things (or use the same language), I liked that Amy was able to be frank about what she has learned over the years. It makes me hopeful for younger women that they are demanding more equal relationships with their sexual partners.
She also speaks about the abusive relationships she has been in. This couldn't have been easy for her to write about. But it is important because it shows how ANY person can get caught up in these situations. We can't judge people and smugly say to ourselves that it won't happen to us. Abusers target anybody who doubts themselves, and we are all vulnerable.
What I Didn't Like:
TMI:
While I appreciated Amy's honest talk about sex, I could have done without knowing about each individual act. Again, I'm sure it's a generational thing, but I just don't need to know such details as how clean her nether parts were or what smells she associates with her vagina. This book was unnecessarily crude.
This memoir was an empowering look at creativity, and a woman's acceptance of her body, her needs, and her worth. It was an entertaining read.
Rating:
Release Date: August 16th, 2016
Genre: Memoir
Source: Public Library
Format: Audio Book
Recommendation: Funny, and empowering, this book was a wonderful look into the life of Amy Schumer.
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Synopsis (From GoodReads):
Of all the charming misfits on television, there’s no doubt Raj from The Big Bang Theory
— the sincere yet incurably geeky Indian-American astrophysicist —
ranks among the misfittingest. Now, we meet the actor who is every bit
as loveable as the character he plays on TV. In this revealing
collection of essays written in his irreverent, hilarious, and
self-deprecating voice, Kunal Nayyar traces his journey from a little
boy in New Delhi who mistakes an awkward first kiss for a sacred
commitment, gets nosebleeds chugging Coca-Cola to impress other
students, and excels in the sport of badminton, to the confident,
successful actor on the set of TV’s most-watched sitcom since Friends.
Going behind the scenes of The Big Bang Theory
and into his personal experiences, Kunal introduces readers to the
people who helped him grow, such as his James Bond-loving, mustachioed
father who taught him the most important lessons in life: Treat a
beggar as you would a king. There are two sides to every story. A smile
goes a long way. And, when in doubt, use a spreadsheet. Kunal also
walks us through his college years in Portland, where he takes his first
sips of alcohol and learns to let loose with his French, 6’8”
gentle-giant roommate, works his first-ever job for the university’s
housekeeping department cleaning toilets for minimum wage, and begins a
series of romantic exploits that go just about as well as they would for
Raj. (That is, until he meets and marries a former Miss India in an
elaborate seven-day event that we get to experience in a chapter titled
“My Big Fat Indian Wedding.”)
Review:
Kunal Nayyar plays one of television's most beloved characters, Raj Koothrappali, in The Big Bang Theory. When I heard he had written a memoir, I didn't know what to expect. How could a 35 year-old have enough life experience to fill an entire book? Well, I needn't have been concerned. This book shares some wonderful life-lessons (and also pays homage to his amazing father).
What I liked:
This book was written in such a way that it served two purposes: autobiography and life-lessons. First, it did give a rough retelling of his life history (where he is from, information about his parents, etc.). But he does this by telling anecdotes of moments in his life where he learned something important. I loved that.
Often, the first half of any memoir is a boring recounting of one's life. Usually, I want to skip ahead to the section where the celebrity finally becomes famous and will start to spill some juicy gossip.
But each of his stories are compelling. The majority of his chapters are about his experiences in college. Kunal came to the U.S. to study economics in Portland, Oregon. What an abrupt change from his life in India! He writes a lot about being an outsider trying to fit in with his peers. I think many of us can relate to this. Whether you move to a new school or job, or move to a foreign country, being the new person is scary! Being away from home for the first time in a new culture must have been very daunting.
The Wedding:
Of all the sections, I really enjoyed the way Kunal spoke of his courtship and wedding to former Miss India, Neha Kupur. This was not only a celebration of his culture, but of his loving family. Amid the lavish parties and rituals, Kunal takes the time to acknowledge his parents and brother and really appreciate all they have done for him.
I found this book to be a wonderful fish out of water account of Kunal Nayyar's life. I only wish I could have listened to the audio book so I could hear him speak his written words.
Rating:
Release Date: September 15th, 2015
Genre: Memoir
Source: Public Library
Format: Hardback Book
Recommendation: A book for anyone who has had to navigate a new situation (basically everyone). This book shows how a person gets what they want in life, while treating others with kindness and respect.
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